Be true! Stay away from flattery.
Speak what you believe to be true without any hesitation. Engaging in artificial conversations and agreeing with someone under pressure, while suppressing your own thoughts, is contrary to your dignity. Such weaknesses indicate that the person is entirely weak in spirit and is afraid to express clear thoughts due to fear. Such cowardly individuals may achieve their selfish ends in some way, but they cannot gain control over someone’s heart. Remember, the increase in respect comes through truth and honesty.
You express genuine thoughts; you say what’s on your mind, even if it may momentarily upset someone. But when anger subsides, they will surely experience that this person is honest, true to their soul. Even in opposition, they will secretly admire you.
Do not sell your self-respect for any greed or temptation. Do not let the noose of self-esteem be cut in exchange for any benefit. Even if flattery and cowardice bring some benefit, abandon them and accept to endure hardship because it will enhance your respect and encourage self-esteem.
Remember, living with self-respect is the true joy of life.